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EARLY PREGNANCY AND PREGNANCY LOSS
 

How can I best prepare for a pregnancy?

Consider preparing for pregnancy as training for a great race. This is a race of endurance, not speed; a race in which a teammate must be carried; and a race that must be finished without being short of breath. This race both figuratively and literally requires great cardiovascular conditioning.

Outcome has everything to do with the state of your body (and mind) at the start of a pregnancy. Many unprepared women have had pregnancy thrust upon them; fortunately, youth and good health will overcome most obstacles. The truth remains that those nine months of development in the womb can affect the health of a child for a lifetime. So plan. The greatest chance for a good pregnancy outcome occurs when the body is at maximum harmony—metabolic balance. See preconception counseling fact sheet.


Am I pregnant?

Implantation of the embryo occurs about five days after ovulation. Very shortly after implantation, small amounts of human chorionic gonadotropin (hCG) must be produced to prevent the failure of the corpus luteum, the power-house of progesterone production. Even before a missed period, the early hormonal changes are often translated into fatigue, breast tenderness, and frequent urination. These feelings may be especially prominent if fertility drugs have been used and cysts remain on the ovary. Many report flu-like symptoms, which in part may be due to the immunologic reaction to implantation. Most, but certainly not all, women have a “second sense” that they are pregnant.

All pregnancy tests, whether the one bought in the local pharmacy or the blood test in a physician’s office, detect hCG. HCG is made by the primitive placenta (trophoblast) as it embeds into the uterine wall. Except under very unusual conditions, hCG is present only during pregnancy. The qualitative tests give a yes or no answer by a color change. Using sensitive assays, it is possible to give a numerical result (quantitative hCG). A positive test indicates a pregnancy has occurred even if subsequent tests are negative. Any positive test is an important finding, in that it signifies that a number of important steps have had to take place. If a period date has passed, do the test before calling a physician because “Did you do a pregnancy test?” is often the first question asked.


Are home pregnancy tests reliable?

Yes. If the test turns positive you are pregnant. False positive tests are very unlikely. If a test is negative, it means that it may be too early for the measurement. Home pregnancy tests (HPT) are based on hCG in urine causing a chemical reaction resulting in a color change of a specifically designed dye indicator. There needs to be 25-50 IU of hCG in the urine for the test to change colors (become positive). Home pregnancy tests turn positive about the time of the first missed menstrual period, or twelve to fourteen days after ovulation. Delayed ovulation may occur in patients with irregular or prolonged cycles and will delay a positive pregnancy test. Tests are rarely negative at any time two weeks after ovulation. A false negative test rarely occurs outside of timing errors.

Two weeks after ovulation, the hCG level should be 15-200 IU/L. After this, the level approximately doubles every forty-eight hours over the next two weeks. A multiple pregnancy has a faster rise in hCG level. In cycles where supplemental hCG was used for ovulation induction, as long as eight days from the hCG injection may be required before it has cleared the system and the pregnancy test is valid. Slower hCG rises may be a sign of an ectopic pregnancy or impending pregnancy loss. A falling level is an ominous sign for the health of the pregnancy.

Progesterone levels may be evaluated at the same time as hCG and can help in the differentiation between healthy and problematic pregnancies. Ectopic (tubal) pregnancies may be associated with low progesterone levels, but the progesterone level alone will not distinguish between an ectopic and intrauterine pregnancy. Because progesterone is secreted episodically, levels may vary between samples and minor ups and downs of several points are of little importance. Unlike hCG, which should steadily rise, progesterone levels remain relatively constant in early pregnancy. Progesterone levels can be considered as reassuring (usually above 20 pg/ml,) probably indicating a compromise in the pregnancy (less than 10 pg/ml). Levels between 10-20 pg/ml are often associated with normal pregnancy. Lower progesterone levels more often indicate a problem with the pregnancy than a problem with progesterone production by the ovary.

Most pregnancy losses are due to genetic abnormalities present from the point of conception. Progesterone may prolong such a pregnancy, but it will not prevent the destined loss. There is no evidence that progesterone supplementation has a detrimental effect on the embryo/fetus other than a postponement of the inevitable miscarriage.

At the same time, there may be some theoretical value in progesterone supplementation in that it may relax the uterus’ smooth muscle and prevent contractions. Theoretically, progesterone may also help the body accept the pregnancy by suppressing the immune response. In many ways a pregnancy is like an organ graft from a different person.

Traditionally, progesterone has been used in an attempt to overcome inadequate progesterone production from the ovary (the so-called luteal phase defect). Actually, the problem usually arises in the follicular phase and therapy should be aimed at correcting the problems with follicle growth and ovulation rather than covering up the trail. Progesterone supplementation in the luteal phase may be more important for cycle regulation than luteal support. It may better prepare the next cycle and most often will not delay menses.

A reasonable plan is to measure hCG and progesterone as soon as a home test turns positive. Progesterone supplementation may be started with borderline or low progesterone levels. Supplementation is continued until levels normalize and the viability of the pregnancy can be ascertained by ultrasound.

After nine weeks, the placenta is capable of making all necessary progesterone and the ovaries could be removed without detrimental effect on the pregnancy. Conclusive benefit for use of progesterone is lacking in any clinical situation other than with IVF and GnRH analog use.

Overall, the usefulness of supplemental progesterone is thought to be limited and has not passed scientific scrutiny One relatively well conducted study a has shown supplemental 17-hydroxyprogesterone given by weekly injection, improves pregnancy outcome, but these findings have not been confirmed.


How pregnant am I?

Pregnancies are dated by weeks since the last menstrual period (LMP). The typical pregnancy lasts 280 days or 40 weeks from the last menstrual period. A due date can be calculated by the formula of adding twelve months minus three months plus one week to the LMP to predict the estimated delivery (due) date (EDD). A term pregnancy is one that has gone on for between 37 and 42 weeks before the baby is delivered. If over 42 weeks, the pregnancy is said to be post-dates and under 37 weeks, preterm.

Historically, conception was thought to occur during menstruation and pregnancy was dated from the onset of the last period. The tradition remains, but it is subject to several flaws. First it is common for patients with longer cycles to have ovulated later in the cycle. The number of days that ovulation occurred past day 14 must be added onto the due date. The second problem occurs because there may be a slight amount of bleeding during either ovulation or the implantation process so the pregnancy may be off by two to four weeks.

Pregnancy is divided into three trimesters of three months each. The first trimester is one of rapid change and adaptation to pregnancy. Virtually every single body part has some degree of change. The second trimester is a time when all generally seems 'right with the world' and complications are uncommon. In the last trimester, pregnancies become very tiring as the delivery day approaches and I have never heard anyone say, “if this could only go on for a little longer.”


Does infertility make a pregnancy high-risk?

Risk is a relative term. Given what can go wrong, every pregnancy ever achieved has risks, some may even say high risks, whether associated with infertility, infertility therapy, or not. Do you need to see a specialist in perinatal medicine? Probably not.

Certainly it appears that the risk of miscarriage is increased in mothers with PCOS as are the risks of gestational diabetes, pregnancy-induced hypertension (PIH, toxemia, preeclampsia), unusually small (growth restricted), large (macrosomia) babies, and c-section rates. All of these are more common in first pregnancies and after many pregnancies. Some risks may be independently related to increased pre-pregnancy weight, others to insulin resistance regardless of weight. Pregnancy risks for women over age 35 are also at slightly higher, but not "high" risk.


What should I expect from my obstetrician?

What is most important is that an obstetric practice is found that provides education, answers to your questions, follows a systematic process allowing early identification of potential problems, and cares for you and your partner as individuals. Believe it or not, there are a lot of practices out there that meet these requirements.


Should I have an ultrasound scan?

YES. Early ultrasound scan can be used to precisely date a pregnancy and serve as a bench mark to better understand the cause of pregnancy loss, if it were to occur. The best reason for an early scan is to give a great sense of relief that all is well. If there is a problem, why not find out as quickly as possible? Not all physicians and insurance companies share this view.

Ultrasound scan will show a pregnancy in the uterus when the hCG level reaches about 1500 IU, or about five weeks after the last menses. An hCG level over 2500 IU without evidence of an intrauterine pregnancy should raise the suspicion of an ectopic pregnancy. Fetal heart activity is usually seen at about six weeks after last menses (four weeks after conception). At eight weeks the embryo measures about 1 cm and movement can sometimes be seen. If all parameters are normal to this point, the risk of miscarriage has markedly dropped and there is an excellent chance the pregnancy will progress to term. At ten weeks gestational age (eight weeks after conception,) the embryo measures about 23 mm (one inch,) all the foundation has been laid for the various organ systems and the embryo becomes a fetus. At twelve to fourteen weeks a detailed analysis of the body systems can be performed by ultrasound and most anatomic abnormalities excluded.

An early scan to determine viability and dating and a second for an anatomic survey would seem to be reasonable.


Pregnancy is not a disease; it is a normal physiologic process (condition). Even though pregnant women can be a little difficult to get along with at times, they are sturdy creatures. There is no evidence that work, exercise, stress, or travel have adverse effects on pregnancy. Stress is always a danger—in pregnancy, in medicine, and in life. This is one you will have to handle yourself.

If you have a question about any activity, ask yourself two questions. First, does this seem like the wrong thing to do and second, if something were to happen would I blame myself? If the answer to either is yes, don't do it. Do not be faced with the comment “I knew I shouldn't have, but….” It is amazing how many questions can be answered by this exercise; it’s really common sense after all. If in doubt—ask.

Follow these guidelines:

Stop short - don't push. This may mean getting off work early, working less, or giving up a commitment. No one is as dependent on you as your baby. Give yourself a margin of safety.

Listen to your body. It will tell you what's going on in there. If you are tired, rest. If you are hungry, eat. If you are sleepy, sleep. If you think there's a problem, have it evaluated.


Nutrition in pregnancy

In general, obstetricians have become much more lenient about what is considered “normal” weight gain in pregnancy and have focused more on good nutrition. If the expectant mother “eats right”, weight gain is thought to be less important. The average weight gain in pregnancy is about 12.5 kg (28 lbs.,) but this still leaves a margin of at least five pounds or so. If over thirty pounds are gained, it becomes much more difficult to return to pre-pregnancy weight. Weight gain in the first trimester is variable and there can be considerable increase due to fluids retention, if fertility drugs which have been used. In the second and third trimesters, about one pound per week is appropriate.

Dieting in pregnancy specifically to lose weight is definitely out. Still, it is common for obese patients not to gain, or possibly to lose weight, in the early stages of pregnancy. The very obese may gain little weight throughout the entire pregnancy.

Average caloric intake for women of normal weight and height should be 2100-2500 cal with somewhat less in the first trimester. Diets under 1800 cal are not recommended. The pregnancy itself will require about 300 additional calories a day over your standard dietary needs. Even more calories will be needed while breast-feeding. The entire calorie cost of the pregnancy is about 80,000. It has been suggested that intake of simple type carbohydrates (sweets) increases maternal weight gain and fetal growth more than with complex carbohydrates (starches). The U.S. governmental guidelines suggest 20% of the diet should come from protein, 40% from carbohydrate, and 40% from lipids.

Pregnant PCOS patients are a higher risk for development of gestational diabetes. As a suggestion, those with PCOS or a strong family history of type 2 (adult onset) diabetes should consider themselves to have gestational diabetes (GDM) right from the start. Women with PCOS should ask their obstetricians for diet information and nutritional counseling. It really doesn't matter how many do not develop gestational diabetes, only how many do. Why wait until thirty weeks and to consider what might have been done? Besides, the pregnant diabetic diet is complete and offers good nutrition.

There is evidence that exercise during pregnancy can reduce the incidence of GDM. Pregnancy is not the time to start aerobic training, but gentle, steady exercise will prepare you for the rigors of parenthood. There are specific exercise programs for pregnancy. Yoga gets high marks. Research has shown that women who are very physically can keep up their activity without significant harm to their babies, although birthweight may be lowered.

Develop a mental image of a small engine inside you that is always running. It runs best when there is a constant and even supply of fuel. Too much and the engine gets flooded, too little and the tank starts to run a little dry. For the mother, this means rather than three big meals a day, think six small meals. Think grazing, not gorging. You will still consume the same amount of calories; they will just be spread out. You will feel better and so will baby.


Can there be bleeding in a normal pregnancy?

There will be bleeding, or at least spotting, in about one in three pregnancies. About 50% of these pregnancies eventually will be lost. While there is no such thing as “normal bleeding,” bleeding does not necessarily indicate a serious problem. With pregnancy, the cervix softens and the surface may easily bleed with even minimal trauma, such as an exam or intercourse. During implantation, which occurs at about the first missed menstrual period, a small amount of bleeding or spotting may be seen. Bleeding may also occur during the process of placenta formation (placentation) when the intimate relationship between the fetal and maternal blood circulation is established. A general rule is the greater amount of bleeding and the more cramping, the greater the chance of pregnancy loss. I have been amazed at the how much bleeding can occur and the pregnancy still continues normally. So first of all, DON’T PANIC. CALL YOUR PHYSICIAN. REST. Although there is a great tendency to want immediate reassurance, it may be more diagnostic to wait eighteen to thirty-six hours at home. Too quick an assessment can be falsely reassuring. Of course, if the pain is severe or the bleeding heavy, a more emergent evaluation may be warranted.


MISCARRIAGE

What is a miscarriage?

A miscarriage is loss of pregnancy before twenty weeks gestation. In the medical community this is more widely called a spontaneous abortion. After twenty weeks a pregnancy loss is called a stillbirth. There have been pleas to use the more widely understood term miscarriage to designate the undesired, or spontaneous loss of pregnancy, but the term abortion is still used by most physicians to describe all losses regardless of cause.

The time surrounding a miscarriage is a time of intense feeling of failure and despair. An emotional scar will almost always remain regardless of future pregnancy success.


What’s the chance of miscarriage?

A couple in their mid-twenties having intercourse regularly will usually take about three months to become pregnant. It is possible that most women who are regularly ovulatory and not using contraception achieve a pregnancy in most months, but the pregnancy is lost soon after conception and goes unnoticed. One in four couples will have a recognized miscarriage. The chance of a miscarriage after a positive pregnancy test is 8-15% for all pregnancies in all age groups. This rate increases to about 15-25% in women over age thirty-five and those who have irregular menstrual cycles. Overall, about 80% of couples with two miscarriages, and 50-60% of couples after four losses still will have a successful pregnancy. As the pregnancy progresses, the risk of miscarriage decreases. Over 90% of miscarriages occur during the first twelve weeks.

The circumstances around the miscarriage are extremely important in determining the cause of the pregnancy loss. A detailed history, clinical and ultrasound findings should be carefully recorded. Perhaps most important is the number of weeks gestational age at which the loss occurs. This may be difficult to determine in some cases because accurate dating has not been made. The number of weeks between loss of viability of the pregnancy and its clinical diagnoses is unknown and the length of the pregnancy often is over estimated. Early first trimester losses are most often due to genetic and hormonal causes. Later first trimester losses, after eight weeks, may be a result of uterine anomalies. Second trimester losses are often due to disorders of the placental-maternal unit and sometimes due to chronic diseases. While genetic problems are less common, they are still possible. Losses during the third trimester are often maternal in origin and may be related to various diseases of pregnancy including diabetes and hypertension.


When Can Tell Us Why

When a pregnancy is lost often determines the cause of the loss. The following are general guidelines.

  •  First trimester: EMBRYO—hormonal and/or genetic in origin
  •  Second trimester: UTERUS—less often genetic and more often anatomic
  •  Third trimester: MATERNAL—immunologic, medical complications

Various terms are used to describe the circumstances surrounding the pregnancy loss, each term taking into account when the loss occurred, clinical findings, ultrasound findings, cause, and whether the loss is recurrent. This has resulted in confusing and overlapping terminology. Listed below are several clinical distinctions used to characterize pregnancy loss.

  •  Blighted ovum
  •  Missed abortion
  •  Threatened abortion
  •  Incomplete abortion
  •  Complete (spontaneous) abortion

The first evidence of a pregnancy on ultrasound is the gestational sac containing a smaller yolk sac as definitive evidence of an intrauterine gestation (pregnancy). Occasionally an irregular structure appearing to be a gestational sac, a “pseudo sac,” can be seen with an ectopic pregnancy.

A pregnancy that has implanted, but has failed to grow to the stage where an embryo can be identified on ultrasound scan is called a blighted ovum. Evidence of a pregnancy is seen by ultrasound by the presence of a yolk sac, but because it lacks evidence of an embryo, it is often called an “empty sac.” These pregnancies are uniformly believed to have a genetic or endocrine reason for their poor outcome. Although gestational sacs vary somewhat in size, smaller sacs are worrisome. A larger or smaller yolk sac can be an early indication of an endangered pregnancy. In the early stages of pregnancies that will subsequently be lost, progesterone levels may be normal or decreased. HCG titers may increase normally or more slowly. The cause of a blighted ovum is virtually always a problem with the conceptus itself, rather than the uterus or maternal factors. While male factors may contribute, the blighted ovum is more commonly of oocyte origin—the reason for the designation of a blighted ovum. Most are a result of genetic abnormalities in eggs that are satisfactory to be fertilized and go through the early stages of development, but not sufficiently normal for further development. Usually, there is insufficient tissue for genetic testing on these pregnancy losses.

Sometimes, an early pregnancy will spontaneously “resorb” and no intervention is necessary. In other cases, there may be persistence of the pregnancy requiring either a D&C to remove the pregnancy. Since the pregnancy is small, care has to be taken with the dilation and curettage procedure to avoid missing the pregnancy. In some cases, it is wise to do the procedure under direct ultrasound guidance. The D&C is performed in an outpatient a same day surgery facility.

A missed abortion is diagnosed when viability of the pregnancy has been lost, but there has been no expulsion of the pregnancy. The blighted ovum is an early type of missed abortion in which fetal heart activity was not identified. Fetal heart activity may have also been seen, but then lost. In some cases, a short time in wait for spontaneous loss may be given before intervention. This may be especially important as a time to accept that the pregnancy will not continue.

Like the blighted ovum, most cases of missed abortion in the first trimester are due to problems in the conceptus. In some cases, there is a much greater chance that this has been a sporadic and non-reoccurring problem related to egg quality rather than an inherited genetic problem. The blighted ovum and missed abortion are the most common types of pregnancy loss in PCOS and a hormonal etiology should be suspected in all cases.

In cases of a threatened abortion there is bleeding but the cervix is closed. When the cervical canal opens, miscarriage is usually inevitable. If only a portion of the pregnancy has been lost, the miscarriage is said to be incomplete and intervention is warranted in all cases. Often there will be a complete and total expulsion of the pregnancy. If the ultrasound scan shows that there are no retained products of conception, bleeding is slowing and the cervical opening is closed, no operative intervention is needed.


Recurrent pregnancy loss

After three, some authorities say two, consecutive pregnancy losses, diagnosis of recurrent or habitual pregnancy loss is made. Every pregnancy loss is associated with despair, but there are few that grieve more deeply and fear more intensely than those who have had repeated pregnancy losses. It is a common feeling that an additional loss could not be withstood.

About 1% of couples trying to conceive will have three or more losses. The best news is that even after three successive losses, the chance of a successful pregnancy is generally greater than 70% and after four losses, still 60%. Usually after successive losses, a medical evaluation should be initiated. In the early stages, this may consist of nothing more than tracking temperatures, using ovulation detection kits, and possibly using luteal progesterone levels.


What causes recurrent pregnancy loss?

When evaluating pregnancy, most physicians go through the process of a mental listing then an exclusion of the possibilities based on individual characteristics. In the final analysis, if it isn't one cause, it must be another.

Causes of Recurrent Pregnancy Loss:

  •  Endocrine/genetic
  •  Anatomic
  •  Inherited
  •  Infectious
  •  Chronic disease
  •  Immunologic
  •  Unexplained

Endocrine/genetic

Previously, it was thought that over 50% of recurrent pregnancy losses were unexplained. We now know that many of these cases are due to subtle hormonal abnormalities. Unless another reason can clearly be identified, such as a strong family history of pregnancy loss or clearly evident uterine abnormality, it may be reasonable to treat with clomiphene or possibly progesterone before extensive testing is performed. After three losses, a karyotype can be considered, if no other cause is evident. Even if the genetic studies are abnormal, that does not mean a normal pregnancy is impossible.


Anatomic

Pregnancy losses that occur after a normal pregnancy has been established and all appears to be progressing well followed by cramping and loss of the pregnancy are more likely due to congenital anatomic abnormalities in the uterus. These can be identified by either hysterosalpingogram (HSG) or hysteroscopy. There are approximately 15% false positive and negative rates with the HSG and it may fail to identify the more subtle anomalies such as a uterine septum. It is unclear whether congenital anomalies of the uterus cause infertility, but it is clear that it is associated with a greater risk of recurrent pregnancy loss and preterm labor. Milder forms are easily corrected by hysteroscopic surgery. It is important to note that there is a high incidence of associated abnormalities of the urinary tract and an intravenous pyelogram is indicated when a uterine anomaly is identified. The more severe uterine anomalies may be easily seen on ultrasound scan. MRI has been suggested for a definitive diagnosis; however, this is very costly and the information can be gained by other sources.


Inherited

The chance of an inherited genetic condition that is passed from either the mother or father as the cause of recurrent pregnancy loss is about 3-5% of cases. These can be identified by karyotype performed on a blood sample. These can be very valuable, but are also extremely costly. Karyotype should probably not be performed in individuals with fewer than three pregnancy losses. Even if a genetic defect has been identified, it may not prevent a normal pregnancy but it may indicate that the chance of a recurrent pregnancy loss is greater.


Infectious

Both mycoplasma and ureaplasma have been identified with a greater risk of pregnancy loss. While there are tests to detect their presence, testing can be inconclusive and it is often easier to treat with a two-week course of antibiotics than identify the specific organism. The chances of recurrent pregnancy loss due to infection are probably very slim, but the treatment is easy and sometimes rewarding.


Chronic disease

Patients with virtually any type of chronic disease may be at increased risk for recurrent pregnancy loss. Chronic diseases such as high blood pressure and diabetes create much higher risk for recurrent loss. An under-appreciated chronic disease may be obesity. Chronic disease probably primarily affects establishment of the maternal fetal circulation. The best treatment in these cases is preconception counseling and making sure that the disease is under the best control possible before a pregnancy is attempted.


Immunologic

Clearly, many of the immunologic diseases have multiple organ system involvement and have a higher rate of pregnancy loss. An uncommon but particularly dangerous type of recurrent pregnancy loss is the anti-phospholipid antibody syndrome characterized by hypertension, poor fetal, and placental development. There are a number of small infarctions that occur in the placenta due to a disorder in the blood clotting mechanisms. Pregnancies are most often lost in the mid-second to early third trimester. A variety of therapies including aspirin, heparin, corticosteroids, and immunoglobulin injections have been tried. Aspirin and heparin have been shown to have benefit in some trials with marginal success.

Our greatest problem is that there is no extensive testing without clinical associations and no proven efficacious therapy exists. There still could be very important developments in this field.

Philosophically, even practically, the diagnosis of unexplained pregnancy loss is hard to accept for patient and physician. Probably most cases are either undiagnosed or misdiagnosed problems in one of the above categories. Most cases of recurrent loss are probably related to egg quality and therefore the environment in which the egg develops.

Probably, this is a real tough question. Miscarriage is probably more likely when ovulation occurs after a day 16. Miscarriage may also be more likely with the use of fertility agents. It is probably not he fertility drug itself that causes the miscarriage, but that there has been further movement along the spectrum form infertility to a healthy baby. Although scientific information is limited, the miscarriage rate may be higher in infertility patients who has spontaneously achieved a pregnancy than the same patient who has used fertility medications

Probably not. Generally, all patients with impending loss are placed on bed rest. Unfortunately, there is no scientific proof that indicates this is of benefit. It doesn’t hurt and it may help to ease anxiety and avoid guilt associated with activity. Sexual intercourse should be avoided. Sex can cause uterine contractions. Generally, once a pregnancy is established, very little can be done to alter its course. This becomes less true in the second and third trimester. Stress may have an adverse effect on pregnancy. Don’t be your own worst enemy. Remember, that nothing you did caused the pregnancy loss. Reassurance by ultrasound can be helpful. It is always great to see the fetal heart beating.

Good, probably excellent. In cases where no cause is discovered and no treatment prescribed, the chance of achieving a healthy pregnancy despite having had three miscarriages is still better than 60%. Generally, the risk of a second loss is only slightly higher after a single loss. Of course, the first loss rate is probably higher than the non-PCOS population. The American College of Obstetrics and Gynecologists (ACOG) now recommends testing after a second loss-especially for women over the age of thirty-five. A recent study has shown that a high percentage of patients that conceive and miscarry during fertility therapy will subsequently have a health baby.

The answer to this is dependent on the size and dates and the circumstances around the loss. There are several studies that suggest that if there is not a waiting period of six months, there is a greater chance of a subsequent low birth weight pregnancy. These studies were mostly performed in indigent patients with borderline nutrition. There is also the concept of a grieving period and a chance to get over the loss. I believe this is a worn approach on two counts. It’s not the concept of “jump back on the horse after being thrown off.” It’s a matter of reaching a peace and moving on. There must be all the processes of grieving that accompany the death of a family member. A scar is left that will heal but will never go away no matter what success there is in the future. A pregnancy can be attempted as soon as you can accept the possibility of another loss. It is common to hear “I can’t go through that again.” The only answer is, “then don’t try.” There is never a guarantee of pregnancy success and virtually never a guarantee of its failure.

Medically, it is probably prudent to wait through at least one normal menstrual cycle after an early first trimester loss, possibly two cycles, if the pregnancy was in the later stages of the first trimester. Second trimester losses may require three months. HCG blood titer should be followed to zero.
It is surprising how many couples will quickly and even spontaneously establish a pregnancy after a recent loss. A pregnancy loss can have a positive effect on PCOS making the next pregnancy both easier to achieve and more likely to be successful.

After losing a pregnancy, or with an impending loss, couples have tremendous amounts of anxiety and despair. In actuality, the chances of having been pregnant and delivering a healthy child is probably much greater than their counterparts seeking fertility therapy.

Physicians view miscarriage as common, natural and a situation that offers little opportunity to treat (prevent). As obstetricians, we know that miscarriage is going to occur in a certain percentage of our patients regardless. Unfortunately, physicians can be very matter-of-fact about pregnancy loss. This doesn’t excuse our behavior, just explains it (partly).


So when can I stop worrying?

You can't, you won't. There will always be the next horizon, whether it will be the first positive pregnancy test, the first evidence of fetal heart activity on ultrasound, a healthy baby at birth, the first step, the first day from home, or their 21st birthday. You will always worry. Stick to worrying about the things you can change.

 

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